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7-day plan · Meltdowns and hard moments

Start with a calm-down plan

Meltdowns are usually overwhelm, not misbehavior. A plan made during a calm moment gives your child, and you, something to reach for when things get big.

Try this for the next 7 days

  1. Step 1: Plan when calm

    Together, pick 2 or 3 things that help: a quiet spot, a blanket, headphones.

  2. Step 2: Put them on one card

    Show the card early, when you first see signs of stress.

  3. Step 3: Stay close, say less

    In the moment, fewer words and a calm presence help most.

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Start tonight with paper

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In the app, tap the "Calm-down choices" template

It's the first one on the home screen. Add photos of your child's things and you're ready in about 3 minutes. Free for [7] days.

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General guidance, not a diagnosis or treatment plan. If you have concerns about your child's development, talk with your pediatrician or a developmental specialist.